Love is a Fickle, Fickle game. One where we have to continually keep our ego in check, and keep our heads above water at all times to ensure it's survival. I think as men we find ourselves bowing out in certain relationship situations where we otherwise wouldn't. As married men we live by the saying "Happy wife, Happy life.". As far as you single guys go you may not use that saying but the same emphasis is there. Keep your woman happy, and everything will be alright. Personally I've found conflict with this; Shutting up and walking away from an argument hasn't always been easy for me. But think about it for one second. You standing there and exchanging blows with your significant other can have devastating effects. The truth is no one in a relationship ever really wins an argument, but it can be even worse for Us. In my experiences most women don't argue like men do. Most women tend to argue because a need or want needs to be addressed and we have just failed to listen. There are nags, and women who not only seek, love and need drama in there lives, but for the vast majority of women this is not the case. They're feeling emotionally neglected and they NEED you to listen. It's up to you as not only the man, but HER man to be receptive to her message. Listen, and be constructive. Be attentive to what she wants. This willingness to resolve the issue will bring you two closer together and decrease the likely hood of these discussions taking place. Arguments, and disagreements are apart of every relationship, but if your significant other knows that you are listening and Constantly working towards improving your relationship she will take a different approach to voicing her displeasure. There will be no need for you to do anything, She will check herself.
As always guys. Godspeed, and God Bless!
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