Less Talk, More Action.

Believe it or not I was not always the ladies man you see before you today. There was a time when women literally scared the crap out of me. You know the sweats, stuttering, rambling, etc, etc, and much like other men in my position took cues from guys who were perceived as being cool in the minds of women(or at that time girls.). Guys who not only looked the part, but Had the verbal "Game" to back it up. I figured if I got my "mouthpiece" in order the rest would be easy. That couldn't have been further from the truth. We are not car salesmen. We are not in the business of talking, but producing results. Although I'm sure they do exist, most women I've encountered Don't want a man who can talk a good game, but one who can put his thoughts, and ideas to use.As I've gotten older I have learned that game is not what you say. It's a mindset. It's a total image that you project.For some playing dress-up and improv-ing there way through the dating scene works; However that leads the real you to try and keep up with a persona you've created which almost never works out. When you're sincere, honest, and the "Real you" your actions naturally follow your words, and align perfectly with your true intentions.This way the woman gets a true sense for who you really are. Leading her to not only be more honest with you, but herself about the true nature of your relationship. Once this has been established there are a few things that you should never overlook. BE HONEST. Be where you say you're going to be. Most women are big girls, and can handle you hitting up a bar with the fellas. What they can't handle is hearing from a secondary source that you were at the bar trickin on all the females. BE ON TIME . It's nothing worse than having to wait for someone. Unless it's some unforseen circumstance you should be early, waiting to greet her. And last but most certainly not least. Be Open Be willing to experience everything this woman has to offer. You never know what type of Quirky activities she may be into. No matter what it is in order to increase her comfort level you must be open to who she really is.


In closing, Talk is cheap. Let your actions be the compass that leads your relationship down the right path.Create a bond based on trust, and dependability. The element of Security is what all successful relationships are built on. Establish it, and Maintain it.


Until next time. Godspeed, and God bless.