Stay in your lane...

Who am I to tell a man not to chase his fantasy? Who am I to tell a man that he's aiming to high? Reasonably I can't. I find it to be a dereliction of my duty as a man to squash another's dream;But there is one thing we need to remember. Just because there is a woman for every man, doesn't mean every woman is for every man. As animals competition for mate drives us to pursue almost anything that we believe will ensure the survival of our gene pool (Physiologically), Technically (And humanely)we just wanna pull a bad ass chick so we can brag to our friends. Now as much as it hurts this is when you have to Sit back and re-evaluate yourself from an honest and Contrived perspective. "What types of women have I attracted in the past?". "What types of things do I look for?". "What types of things do I stand for?". I've noticed in past experiences the more a guy gravitates from his natural comfort zone, the more he disguises himself. The more he actually hides of his natural personality to fulfill a superficial need or want. That is not to say that there are not Beautiful, mature, grounded women, because there are. But these aren't the women being pursued at bars with belly tops, dancing on counter tops ,living for the pseudo affection of alcohol induced Frat boys. These fake, popularity (At all costs) addicted women may be the life of the party. They may be a notch you desperately want in your belt, but they aren't for everyone. They're for there equally shallow male counterpart. "I spend too much time at the gym, mall, and bar" guy. These equally shallow people come together to spare the rest of us the hassle of dealing with transparency.The beautiful, Grounded, Mature women (Of all races, shapes, sizes) are what you want. They are what you need. They will stimulate you in a number of ways, and will ensure that you stay between those yellow lines, and reach your destination in a safe, timely manner.