Becoming a 5-tool Player: The massage

There are things that every man should have in his arsenal that makes him that much more attractive to his partner. In this ongoing series I'll be detailing some of those things that will help you to become a "5-tool player". Part one will be covering the "Massage".










Go home... Study up, and Go try these techniques out on your significant other. I know I will!

Song of the Day: Gyptian Hold Yuh!

What's the value of your affection

The Idea of love in my opinion has been cheapened. It seems like every time there is a new way to purchase someone’s Affection. Am I cheap? Yes. Do I know that there should be a higher value placed on love? Hell yes. In every Country on every Continnent there is a woman content with being mistreated because her allowance is on the way. Ironically there are entire industry’s that are predicated off men trying to either buy love or buy back love. For some it works, for others it’s a necessity. I know women right now who would rather there significant others purchase extravagant gifts than to invest in a future (Ie Home Mortgage). This in itself is why I say the game is all fucked up. Love is a game of skill, not luck. Love takes endurance. Love takes patience. Love takes strategy. What happens when/if the money well dries up? What happens when the hard times come, and the good times aint rollin? Forget love…You can include that in the realm of “in like”. Depending on money to guide you through the gauntlet of love is like trying to negotiate a mountain road in February on a Motorcycle. You better have an amazing amount of skill, or one hell of an insurance policy. Money is important. It’s how we all keep a roof over our heads, and food on our table. It isn’t important for someone looking for someone. It’s important if you’re looking for someone who can provide you with a good time…But not if you’re looking for someone to provide you with the companionship we all truly crave, and desire. Nothing in this world is free. Everything comes with a price tag, but last time I checked…Love don’t cost a thing

Standing Out in a Sea Of Confusion.

If "looking the part" is the first line of defense in any first encounter why in gods name would you want to look like everyone else? Once you hit a certain age the Cookie Cutter approach to Fashion/ Courtship gets stale. Women want to see a man with a sense of individuality. Sometimes it can go overboard. Even I can be guilty of that. I like my odd colored shoes, and outrageously coordinated outfits from time to time, but I would rather run the risk of being over the top, than not even attempting to climb the ladder. The thing is you have to try. You have to experiment in order to gain appreciation for not only style, but your OWN unique personal style. If you think women are getting turned on by your XXXL Tees and your XXL Pants when you're clearly a large you're sadly mistaken. It's the girls who are taken back by your choice of fashion, and it's the women that are laughing at you. It's the women who are shaking there heads at the waste of looks, poise, and confidence being dragged down by the overabundance of unnecessary fabric. And to be honest it has nothing to do with labels, but everything to do with Cleanliness, Fit, and Coordination. You have to ask yourself one important question. How can a woman ever see you as a man If you don't Look like one?


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