For the Love of our fellow Brother

I haven't blogged about anything in a while. I was busy, Bored or a combination of both, but there was a news story that re-ignited the fire. There is a Small Building in Florida in disguise as a "Church" named Dove World Outreach Center who plans to dishonor 3,000 people, 2 religions, and 1 country by burning the Holy Qu'ran. I simply do not know how he could get any further from the teachings of Jesus Christ.

I simply do not know how someone with such hatred in his heart could be the leader of a church group. Furthermore how brainwashed and fanatical do you have to be to follow him? For the past nine years The United States has had a love affair with hating Islam, and everything that surrounds it. We take everything we hear and distort it into an absoulte truth, that doesn't even carry enough credibility to be a lie. Americans know absolutely nothing about islam. They didn't before 9/11 and they surely don't Post 9/11. There are almost 2 billion Muslims on this planet, and you would have to be insane to think that even the Minority look like this.









Yet images like these are plastered on our Televisions, and Computer monitors on a regular basis. That is the only variable that is an absolute truth. Over the past 9 years the American Media has prospered on broadcasting conflicting images pertaining to Islam, and the American people have eaten it up. We have been caught hook, line and sinker. If you asked an ordinary American from the Midwest what comes to mind when you said the word "Muslim" I could almost guarantee they would use the word "Terrorist". We've been conditioned to beleive that Islam is a Religion based on Violence,when in fact the "root" of the word "Islam" in Arabic is SALAMA which is the origin of the words Peace & / or Submission, a submission to God and peace to all humanity. It is, thus, no wonder why the salutation in Islam is: "Al-Salamu Alaikum or Peace be upon You.".


Unfortunetly The demonstration in Florida will not be the only one. From a very reliable source I've heard of One in Georgia, and another in New York, and I fear that there may be more rally's like this one around the country. This is not the work of God, and any act should be condemmend as DEMONIC, HATEFUL, SINFUL, and BLASPHEMOUS. As a United Race called Humans regardless of Color, Nationality, and religion should not support this. Our Brothers and Sisters are being Persecuted, The very backbone of there existance mocked, and destroyed, and for what? 9/11/2001 Is done and over with. There is no retribution for the past, and The muslim population of the world should not be made to pay for 19 other mens sins. The Amerikkkan culture is built on hate. It's built on misunderstanding, and it thrives on the downfall of others. I guess dropping bombs continuously on two countries, and ravaging a region where islam is the Primary Religion isn't enough. We have to burn it's history as well.

To all my Islamic Brothers and Sister as you stand united in the face of Biggotry...

From the heart of a true Christian.

Ana behibak ...Ana behibek And Ya Khawati

Becoming a 5-tool player Part 2A. (The suit.)

I'm not a suit guy personally; however there are times where I do need to put one on. Fortunately for me I was blessed with a father who understands the particulars of style, And he always told me it doesn't matter the color, or the pattern, but the FIT is what makes the suit. Too often you'll see a guy with an off the rack suit he didn't bother to get tailored. Or a guy who has gained or lost weight content with wearing his favorite suit despite the fact it fits incorrectly. Here is guide to helping you purchase the correct suit.

The first thing to do, if you haven’t already, is get properly measured this includes: neck, shoulders, sleeves, chest, waist and inseam. Once you know your size you are free to hit the dressing rooms. And when you do go shopping for men's suits, keep these four things in mind:


Number one: The Fit of your Trousers

Make sure that the waistline of your trousers is comfortable and that you can stick two fingers into the waist while you're wearing them. And as far as pleats are concerned, it’s usually a personal preference. However, as a general rule, pleats are better for those with larger tummies and not a good idea for those who are thin. This is because a flat front trousers accentuate your tummy if you have one and pleats help cover it up. And conversely, pleats make a skinny guy look even skinnier, and not in a good way.



Number two: The Hem of your trouser

Nothing says sloppy more than a pile of fabric at your ankle. Your pants should reach your shoes and have a slight break. Cuffed or uncuffed is your choice, but keep in mind that cuffless makes you look taller if you happen to be a little shorter and cuffs looks better on someone with long legs. Cuffs also appeal to a more mature consumer.



Number three: The Length of your sleeves

Make sure your sleeve length is right on, otherwise you will look like you borrowed someone else’s suit. If the sleeve covers your shirt cuff, it is too long. It should just reach the base of your thumb, revealing a half inch to an inch of your shirt cuff—very classy.


Number four: The waist of your jacket

The jacket should fit easily across your stomach. The traditional American suit with two buttons, which has been a mainstay for many years, is being replaced by suit jackets which are more fitted and have three and four buttons. However, the classic two-button style remains popular, and some two-button jackets offer a fresh twist with higher button placement similar to the three-button style and is often more flattering. Whether your preferred style is classic or modern, look for fitted waistlines that enhance the shape of your body. Getting a close fit at the waist is, do I dare say it?, a good thing.


When it is all said and done, you should be able to stretch and bend easily in your suit. Make sure that you that you have free movement of your arms. As a test, bring your arms out straight in front of you, and also try sitting in a chair and pretend you are working. You should always be comfortable.



In case the text doesn't do it for you...I've provided a few examples.







The two example(s) listed above are "Properly Fitted suits".










The two listed above can be categorized as "Ill-Fitting"







Side By Side Comparison





I'll save the conclusion for Part 2B...which will detail Different cuts of suit, along with Shirts, Ties, and putting together Proper combination's.

Becoming a 5-tool Player: The massage

There are things that every man should have in his arsenal that makes him that much more attractive to his partner. In this ongoing series I'll be detailing some of those things that will help you to become a "5-tool player". Part one will be covering the "Massage".










Go home... Study up, and Go try these techniques out on your significant other. I know I will!

Song of the Day: Gyptian Hold Yuh!

What's the value of your affection

The Idea of love in my opinion has been cheapened. It seems like every time there is a new way to purchase someone’s Affection. Am I cheap? Yes. Do I know that there should be a higher value placed on love? Hell yes. In every Country on every Continnent there is a woman content with being mistreated because her allowance is on the way. Ironically there are entire industry’s that are predicated off men trying to either buy love or buy back love. For some it works, for others it’s a necessity. I know women right now who would rather there significant others purchase extravagant gifts than to invest in a future (Ie Home Mortgage). This in itself is why I say the game is all fucked up. Love is a game of skill, not luck. Love takes endurance. Love takes patience. Love takes strategy. What happens when/if the money well dries up? What happens when the hard times come, and the good times aint rollin? Forget love…You can include that in the realm of “in like”. Depending on money to guide you through the gauntlet of love is like trying to negotiate a mountain road in February on a Motorcycle. You better have an amazing amount of skill, or one hell of an insurance policy. Money is important. It’s how we all keep a roof over our heads, and food on our table. It isn’t important for someone looking for someone. It’s important if you’re looking for someone who can provide you with a good time…But not if you’re looking for someone to provide you with the companionship we all truly crave, and desire. Nothing in this world is free. Everything comes with a price tag, but last time I checked…Love don’t cost a thing

Standing Out in a Sea Of Confusion.

If "looking the part" is the first line of defense in any first encounter why in gods name would you want to look like everyone else? Once you hit a certain age the Cookie Cutter approach to Fashion/ Courtship gets stale. Women want to see a man with a sense of individuality. Sometimes it can go overboard. Even I can be guilty of that. I like my odd colored shoes, and outrageously coordinated outfits from time to time, but I would rather run the risk of being over the top, than not even attempting to climb the ladder. The thing is you have to try. You have to experiment in order to gain appreciation for not only style, but your OWN unique personal style. If you think women are getting turned on by your XXXL Tees and your XXL Pants when you're clearly a large you're sadly mistaken. It's the girls who are taken back by your choice of fashion, and it's the women that are laughing at you. It's the women who are shaking there heads at the waste of looks, poise, and confidence being dragged down by the overabundance of unnecessary fabric. And to be honest it has nothing to do with labels, but everything to do with Cleanliness, Fit, and Coordination. You have to ask yourself one important question. How can a woman ever see you as a man If you don't Look like one?


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If you want to keep someone...You better sure as hell act like it.

Yesterday I was looking over at my neighbor who just so happens to be about 6.5 months pregnant. I've watched her belly grow over the last few months, but haven't seen the father since she started to show. Why is this important? Because about a year and a half ago she was engaged to another man. A man whom she'd been with for 3 years, and was Holding out on...Er... Preserving herself until marriage. This man ended up cheating on her. I don't condone cheating, but if you've been with someone for 3 years, "Put a ring on it", and still don't get any there's a HUGE flaw in your relationship. I can still remember the days she came to our door crying about how much of an asshole he was. Only to enter into a new relationship and give it up almost instantly. Only to break up with this guy, put out some more, and now is alone, and pregnant.When if she acted right in the beginning would probably be Married, and had the support necessary to provide a stable environment for her child. What's the moral of the story? Don't make your partner jump through unnecessary hoops in order to stroke your ego. If you love someone. SHOW IT! Regardless if it's Emotional, mental or physical. All three needs must be met(at some point) to validate the relationship. Because if you don't. You're going to find yourself in a situation like my neighbor. Displacing anger because YOU fucked up. Like I said before...I don't condone cheating. BUT...I understand.